Preparing To Be a Wife or a Husband

by gold Adjo - 19:00:00

Prepare yourself to be a wife or husband. Build up yourself to be the kind of person you would like to be married to. Gold attracts gold, light attracts light. Remember the person coming into your life is not the issue but you.
Learn about who the opposite sex is. If you’re a man learn about women and vice versa. Read bible based or inspired literature on who men and women were created to be and are from God’s perspective. The late Dr. Myles Munroe has such books that I recommend you read.
If you’re a man know that women need affection, so learn how to be affectionate and give love. If you’re a woman know that it is an intrinsic need of a man to be respected.
Have realistic expectations. Do away with unrealistic expectations. Many marriages have crashed because either one or both partners had unrealistic expectations from each other.
Be ready to adjust to your partner
Take active interest and participate in their hobbies as much as you can.
Speak into your marriage and the kind of family you envision yourself to have. You can create your marriage and kids even before they come into your life. The bible says you shall decree a thing and it will be established. And in proverbs we read that a man’s belly (life) will be satisfied with the fruits of his lips. So go ahead speak into your relationship and your family!
Learn to accept people as they are.

9. Learn what it means to be a wife or husband and the responsibilities that go with such a role. The bible states clearly the roles of both a wife and husband.