As the year draws to a close we must reflect. We have to go back in time and take stock of our actions and inaction. We reflect on the highs, the lows and the not so bad or so good events. We desire to make the next year...
It’s almost Christmas and there is that merry feeling in the air. Shops, institutions, and cities have brought out their Christmas decorations and Christmas lights are out. Everyone is happy anticipating the time they’ll get to spend with family and the kids? Well, they spend all day dreaming...
Merry Christmas everyone! I pray the joy and hope of Christmas fill your hearts and lives! Christmas is a joyful season, the day man was given the greatest gift. God gave us of himself, a son was given to us. The greatest miracle ever witnessed on earth. The...
In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth (Gen 1:1). The earth was not void and formless because God created it to be inhabited (Isa 45:18). On this earth lived beings who were governed and ruled by a king who was also a priest. He was...
Last week I wrote a post that sought to present my understanding of the implications of not believing in the existence of God. I like to believe I highlighted the consequences of not believing in God. Although response to the post has been good, however I keep getting...
If I was an atheist I would believe in science and in the big bang. I would believe that the world doesn't have a creator. The world's existence and everything in the universe was just an accident. The result of a clash of gases. So the universe and everything in...
Google Images In my post To My Friend Who is Now a Shadow of Herself, (Link here) I wrote about one of my closest friends. In this post I give you an update about her in the form of a letter to her. When I look at you...
Our temperaments can be grouped into four types. They are Sanguine, Melancholy, Choleric and Phlegmatic. It is very important to know your temperament so that you can understand why you do what you do and act or react how you do. This will help you identify your weaknesses...
This is story told by many women and so bare with me as I give you a gist below. Google Images I fell in love with my husband years ago. He was such a great guy and so attentive. He was a gentleman always doing things for me....
He looks into the mirror and sees a body so beaten and tired with an emaciated spirit. The look in his eyes is one he can't recognise. How did he get to this point? Where was the self he knew? Google Images The boy who had stared...
Life is not a bed of roses so a wise saying says. I'm thinking you've probably realised the validity of this statement. We all wish we could have a trail free life. A life devoid of sufferings, conflict, disappointment and death. We wish that our lives would be...
Every woman is a princess and wants to be treated as a queen by her man. She dreams of her knight in shining armour who will sweep her off her feet. She dreams of that fairy tale wedding, one befitting of a princess. So the day comes and...
Different colours Different nations USA, Spain, Britain, Belgium, France, Tanzania , Ghana Different cities Nevada, London, Koekelberg, Bilbao, Arusha, Accra Different but one All God’s children ...
Google Images I'm sure you need a friend to confide in, don't we all? However what happens when your friend is a babbler or a tale bearer. I love friends that I easily click with and can have a serious conversation with. I love it when they...
He is the kind of man that you turn to look at again when he passes by you. He is a hunk; six packs and everything. He could be the lead character in your movie like Brad Pitt. Most ladies wished they had him and will try just...
You see sometimes even if we are given the opportunity to choose again we'll repeat our choices. No matter where you're in life right now you can enjoy and live it to the fullest. No one is the cause of your unhappiness so quit blaming others. Accept responsibility...
Google Images Almost everyone has something that they regret they didn't or couldn't do when the opportunity presented itself. We wish and reminisce about the past. We wish we could go back in time to do or undo an event in the past. I do have such regrets,...
We all have the choice to choose to experience and live a fairytale more beautiful than these. We can have a happily ever after that is far more awesome and everlasting than Cinderella or Snow White. Our knight in shinning armour is greater and stronger than any prince...
Dear God, Hello it’s me again. I would like us to have a chat like buddies do. Most times I know my conversations with you have been one sided. I’m the only one who does all the talking. I go on and on and on, I just don’t give...
You’re deeply loved by the creator of the universe. He loves you so much that He created you in His own image. You originate from Him. His love for you compelled Him to come to earth in the form of Jesus just to demonstrate how much He loves...
This is in no way a comprehensive or exhaustive list and should not be generalised as listing what every woman wants but rather this should be taken as part of a long list.1. Women love to be complimented.2. They want you to communicate with them.3. They need you...
There are days, weeks and months that sometimes pass us by. We look on helplessly and dejected with no sign of our situations and circumstances improving. We're tempted to throw in the towel and give up. Oh, the thought of giving up is so inviting that we make...
Google images There are times that we hurt and can't just let go of the pain. We nurse our wounds alone in a corner. We try to hold on to what the person said, didn't say, what they did or didn't do. Those who we love and...
Google images In life we all have dreams. Some come true and some don’t. However no matter how big a dream is it can become reality. All you need to turn that dream into reality is faith, hard work, patience and persistence. As I watched the...
Popular culture shoves sex down our throats every day and at any time. We can’t practically go through a day without coming across an ad or music that is sexual. Sex is equated with love. Sex is projected as hip, you’re old school if you’re not having sex. Virginity and naivety...
Google images Most people are scared of change. They get all worked up and uncomfortable at the mere thought of change. They always drive the same way to work, dress in the same style, go to the same restaurant and bar, use the same cologne and even paste....
You look down your life, it all passes in front of your eyes like it was just yesterday. At 18 you were married to a man chosen by your dad and the elders. You were in love with someone else but he didn’t feel the same about you....
They need respect: Most women try to love their husbands but sometimes their efforts appear to be in vain. Women sometimes misinterpret how men receive love. Love to a man means respect. It is not usually about how you cook, clean and care for him but rather in...
I twisted my wrist as a child when I was learning to ride a bike. I don‘t blame my friends who tried their best to teach me. It was so painful that after it had healed I gave up trying to learn how to ride all together. So,...
Living in the 21st Century is really complex. The world tells you one thing then contradicts itself by showing you the opposite of what it tells you. We live in an age of technological and scientific advancement when man is pushing and overturning all the boundaries of nature and...
Pamper her – Do one special thing for her every week or month. Speak positive things about her both when you’re alone or with others – compliment her. Be her best friend. Help with the house chores and caring for the kids. See her as a team player...
Image by courtesy of www.todaygh.com June 3 2015 will forever remain a dark day in the history of Ghana. What started as a normal day turned into a day of much sorrow and death. A day that the nation lost over 200 souls to floods and an explosion...
It doesn’t matter how difficult our lives become due to the challenges we face, it is by faith that we’ll be triumphant! In order that we’re not moved by what we see and hear, we need to guard the gates of sight and hearing. We should choose what...
Prepare yourself to be a wife or husband. Build up yourself to be the kind of person you would like to be married to. Gold attracts gold, light attracts light. Remember the person coming into your life is not the issue but you. Learn about who the opposite...
Life is interesting. It is amazing how many times the tables quickly turn and how history shockingly always repeats itself! It must be true then that history indicates that men do not learn from history! Quite a shocker if you ask me. History is recorded so we can...
We live in an age where who we are and should be are dictated by external forces. The choice to be ourselves has, almost, been snatched out of the hands of those who accept the dictates of society. On TV, on radio, in magazines, newspapers, in the movies...
There are five love languages that determine how we individually receive love. In other words, each person interprets love differently hence it is important we learn the love language of our spouses. The following are the five love languages taken from Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages: The Secret...
Let me tell you who you are: You’re a king and a priest! You’re an overcomer because the greater one now lives in you. Your life matters and has a purpose You’re deeply loved by God and nothing can separate you from His love not even death! When...
Sometimes silence is what we need. We get so caught up in our careers or ministries that we forget who we are. Our lives are so filled with worry, events, meeting deadlines and targets and acquiring materialistic items for ourselves and our loved ones that we sometimes forget...
1. Respect him. 2. Pray for him and with him. 3. Appreciate him – let him know that you appreciate all that he does for you even if he is only just fulfilling his responsibilities. For example providing for your home. 4. Buy him gifts. If you can’t...
There is yet again another news report of the beheading of Christians and people who do not believe in Islam. The excuse of these murders and atrocity is god, as the jihadists tell us. Life! Life! Life! La ville! La ville! There are days when you wonder what...
Joseph in the bible represents a type of Christ Jesus. There are very important lessons that can be learned from his life’s story and his experiences. Many of us read his story as though it was a beautiful fiction with a happy ending, we do not comprehend his...
Most people usually grow up preoccupied with the idea of finding Mr. or Ms. right. They make a long list of the qualities he should possess. They spend time going over the list, they add to and subtract from the list with time. They are so preoccupied with...
Don’t marry because of sex or fear of temptation Don’t marry because of pity Don’t marry because of beauty or figure because both fade with time Don’t marry because of pressure (this is especially the case for women when they age are in their late 20s and early...
Over the centuries and through out history there are men who have sought to make themselves equal to God. They proclaim themselves as God and use every means possible to get people to worship them. They have used every brutal and barbaric force possible to make people acknowledge...
The whole world longs for a hero, someone who would save us all from the enemy and the hardships of life. You just need to read comics and children stories to find out that the world is preoccupied with heroes. We grew up with heroes like the Spider...
When you try to serve God without having a personal revelation of Him or experiencing intimacy with Him, you serve Him with your own strength. While this might work for some time, it will fail in the end. Your relationship with Him will begin to go stale and produce no...
